When Paola Cruz was young, both of her parents left the Philippines in search of job opportunities in the United States, leaving her and her three siblings behind to be raised by her grandmother. Her grandmother, or ‘Nanay’ as their family calls her, took up dressmaking to support the family. Though she had excitedly enrolled in college at age 17, her family’s financial situation eventually took a turn for the worse, and Cruz made the decision to put her education on hold to take a position as a customer service agent to help make ends meet.
Things soon took another difficult turn, and Cruz began to experience the beginnings of a chronic disease—forcing her to stop working. At 19, she was diagnosed with Graves’ disease, or toxic diffuse goiter, an autoimmune disease that affects the thyroid gland. Over the course of three years, Cruz spent much of her time in and out of the hospital, suffering from a myriad of the disease’s symptoms.
It wasn’t until she was able to emigrate to New York City in 2012 that Cruz began to make strides toward remission from Graves. With the will to get better, her doctor’s help, and a number of resources that she now had access to living in the U.S, she decided to pursue a healthier lifestyle.
“I knew the chances of remission were low, but it was possible.” said Cruz. “Now, I'm almost seven years in remission from Graves’. As clichéd as it sounds, it took developing Graves’ for me to value my health. I reclaimed my life."
While managing her health, Cruz also sought out services and programs that could help her settle into her new life in the U.S. and even prepare to return to college. She had very little knowledge of how the job market worked in the U.S., so she enrolled in a business training program exclusively for underserved women to aid them in professional development, business communications, and office technology at the Grace Institute. Through her involvement in their workshops, Cruz landed her first job.
For a few years, she took on various odd jobs including nannying, assisting at a mailroom, and completing administrative duties at a financial firm. She was able to set aside some money so that she could return to college—a promise she had made to herself and her Nanay.
"My grandmother is the strongest person I know, and she’s the main inspiration for everything I do. She was never supposed to fill my parents' roles, but she did just that, simultaneously raising four kids and dressmaking to make ends meet. She doesn’t ask for much from me, but at the time where I was working a lot, every single call with her would consist of reminders that I would go back to college. It was what I wanted for myself as well, but I guess I was a little scared to start over again, and that’s why it took me a while,” said Cruz.